Exploration of Family Relations

  FAMILY RELATIONS   OCTOBER 30, 2021 06 Marriage Expectations ___ Jocelynn Linton Hello Everybody! Today’s topic is…marriage! Just like every single other topic in today’s world, the views on marriage are very different nowadays than they have been in the past. People are getting married less, married for different reasons, and divorce rates are higher than ever before. Why do people get married? In the past, people married for money, political advantage, family alliances or security. Now days, things are very different. Most of the time, people marry for love and intimacy. Intimacy is so essential and important to our mental and emotional health. When you are marrying someone, you are binding yourself to them. This is a very beautiful and sacred union that often comes with many hopes and expectations. It is very important to make sure that all these expectations are realistic and reasonable. Marriage is not easy, and unfortunately many people do not realize that not everything is goi

  FAMILY RELATIONS   OCTOBER 23, 2021 05 Dating Culture ___ Jocelynn Linton Welcome back everyone! I hope you all had a great week. I am very excited about writing today’s blog because it is a topic that I have always found very fascinating. In today’s world, we are seeing constant change. One of these changes has been the dating culture. Over the past 50 years the definition of dating has drastically transformed.  Dating used to be a planned activity where you got to know another individual. Usually in a group setting. “The idea of the perfect first date has changed a lot in 50 years. "The date usually happened in a public place, among other teens; there was lots of talking to get to know each other; and if there was any money spent, the guy paid (Greenwald, 2019).” Now days, things are very different. Back then, you had to actually meet someone and talk to them before you could get their number or even ask them out. Today, there are so many ways to connect with people. Online da

  FAMILY RELATIONS   OCTOBER 16, 2021 04 Gender and the Family ___ Jocelynn Linton This week in Family Relations, we covered a topic that is quite a difficult topic in today’s world. It was Gender in Families. Since the very beginning of time, there has been a universally understood definition of gender. Male, and Female, boy and girl. It was understood that there were only two genders. Now days, these definitions have been blurred and in many cases even erased. The gender norms that have existed in our society for so long are now under attack. What truly differentiates a male and female, well…besides the obvious, there are many differences between males and females, not only physically, but psychologically and mentally as well. We refer to these differences as gender-typical behaviors. Women tend to be more emotional and rely heavily on verbal communication, whereas men tend to be more physical and less rational. When women are angry, they often use words and emotions as a means of re

  FAMILY RELATIONS   OCTOBER 9, 2021 03 Family Experiences ___ Jocelynn Linton Hello, hello again lovelies! This week, my family relations class covered a very interesting topic. We talked about different classes in America. The question posed was, “Is there a caste system in the states?”  While we may not have one set in stone, is there one ingrained in the subconscious of every US citizen? An interesting idea. Many people born into wealthy circumstances are often blessed with more connections and opportunity simply because of their origins. In contrast, those born into poorer circumstances find it difficult to rise above their surroundings. I am NOT saying that it is not possible, or that it hasn’t been done.  For class I had the opportunity to watch a few episodes of the series People Like Us . THey followed the heartbreaking story of a mother named Tammy. Tammy lived in the humblest of circumstances with her four children. They had a small trailer surrounded by trash. She walked 10

  FAMILY RELATIONS   OCTOBER 1, 2021 02 Boundaries in the Home ___ Jocelynn Linton The Merriam Webster Dictionary defines boundaries as, “unofficial rules about what should not be done : limits that define acceptable behavior (Webster).” In almost any family, no matter where you are, there are boundaries and rules, both spoken and unspoken. These are what govern a family and ensure order and respect. Recently, my Family relations class had a discussion on the different types of boundaries that are set by families. My professor used the analogy of three houses. The first house had a brick wall surrounding it. It’s lawn was immaculate to the point of discomfort. With chain link fences and barbed wire. Barred windows and bullet proof glass. The second house was in complete disarray. There was a half finished lopsided fence, the door was wide open, no windows and a messy yard. Finally, the last house. This house had a nicely manicured lawn with some toys and flowers. There was a beautiful